In my experience, pain is always bearable no matter what its intensity or depth. I would call a pain unbearable only if it renders you senseless or mad.
What I am going through at present is probably something existential; it has nothing to do with any individual. I don’t know if I am able to make myself clear or if you would be able to understand it. What I am going through raises the ultimate question: can you be independent of anything or anyone else? Can you really be “independent”? The question has been raised to me by existence, and I am in the process of finding out the answer. So far, the answer is both yes and no, but ultimately one is going to prove to be correct.
I know the intellectual answer, but I want to know the existential answer too; and I am sure I will know it pretty soon.